If you're a cigar-smoking Mom or Dad, I want to hear from you.
Like any good father, I want what's best for my kids. With my oldest still under 4, they're still pretty far removed from chats about sex, drugs, and rock 'n roll. But sooner or later, they're going to start asking material questions about cigars and why I smoke them.
My oldest already knows what cigars are. He saw a cigar in the ashtray and asked me what it was, and I answered him frankly. I'm not about to insult his intelligence by pretending not to hear his question, or by spouting off some falsehood.
I guess the bottom line is this: I'm not interested in indoctrinating him in any way, but neither am I about to hide my cabinet humidor.
I DO consciously abstain from smoking in their presence. While I'm not ashamed of cigars, smoking is not a behavior I wish to normalize in their worldview. Besides, with few exceptions, actually enjoying one when they're about is near-impossible.
Do I look forward to sharing a cigar with my kids someday? Sure, when they're 18 and old enough to know the difference between occasionally enjoying a fine cigar and chain-smoking cigarettes.
How do/did you handle the smoking question vis-à-vis cigars? Are there any tips you can give to a relative rookie Dad? Thanks in advance.